Sex Dreams & Spiritual Spouses: The Hidden War Destroying Souls, Relationships, and Marriages
🔍 Introduction: The Spiritual Reality of Sexual Immorality
Sexual
sin is not merely a moral failing—it is a spiritual battlefield where unseen
forces war for dominion over souls, relationships, and destinies. Many
believers remain unaware of the demonic legalities attached to sexual sin,
leading to cycles of bondage, brokenness, and delayed destinies.
This
document exposes:
·
How sexual immorality opens demonic gateways
·
The reality of spiritual spouses
(incubus/succubus spirits)
·
The occult roots of sexual dreams and soul ties
·
Biblical strategies for deliverance and
restoration
“For
we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against
powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age…” — Ephesians
6:12 (NKJV)
📖 Section 1: Why
Many Fall Into Sexual Immorality
Understanding
why people engage in sexual immorality is critical to breaking free from
it. Most people don’t simply wake up one day and decide to sin sexually—there
are often deep-rooted reasons and unseen spiritual influences at play.
I. 👀 Exposure Through the
Eyes: The Gate to the Soul
The eyes
are one of the most powerful gateways into a person’s soul. What we
consistently watch begins to shape what we desire.
·
Watching pornography from a young age or
even as a married person creates mental and spiritual images that fuel lust and
addictive behavior.
·
Some married couples watch pornography to “learn
styles” for intimacy, not knowing they are invoking spirits of lust,
perversion, and confusion into their marriage bed.
·
Dirty movies, music videos, social media
content, and even “romantic” shows filled with nudity condition the
soul to crave sinful pleasure.
·
Every image viewed in lust is like giving
permission for a spirit of sexual immorality to enter.
“The lamp of
the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be
full of light.” – Matthew 6:22
“I made a
covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman.” — Job
31:1 (NIV)
II. 🧬 Generational Open
Doors: Inherited Spiritual Oppression
Some struggles
with sexual sin are not self-initiated—they are inherited.
- There
are people who battle intense sexual urges, night encounters, or same-sex
attraction without any clear external reason.
- These
can be the result of generational curses or spiritual doors
opened by parents, grandparents, or ancestors.
- If
family members engaged in:
o
Occult Involvement (witchcraft, Freemasonry,
secret oaths)
o
Sexual Sins of Ancestors (adultery,
prostitution, incest)
o
Idolatry & False Religions (ancestral
worship, shrine dedications)
o
Spiritual transactions involving blood or sex
Then those doors
may still be spiritually open, giving demonic spirits legal access to
torment the family line.
These
generational spirits often manifest as:
✔ Chronic sexual
addiction (porn, masturbation)
✔ Repeated cycles of sexual sin in the family ✔ Repeated marital failures
(divorce, estrangement)
✔ Unexplained infertility or reproductive disorders (with no medical
explanation) ✔ Nighttime sexual oppression (dreams, sleep paralysis)
Some sexual
struggles are not self-initiated but inherited through family bloodlines.
“Visiting the
iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations…”
— Exodus 20:5 (NKJV)
III. 😔 Emotional Trauma
and Unhealed Wounds
Some people turn
to sexual sin due to unhealed emotional pain/wounds, such as:
·
Childhood abuse (molestation, rape, incest,
neglect)
·
Rejection or abandonment
·
Lack of fatherly/motherly love
·
A need for validation, love, or attention
The enemy
exploits these wounds, offering counterfeit comfort through lustful
pleasure. But the relief is temporary—what follows is bondage, shame,
and distance from God.
🛑 It’s Time to Wake Up
Sexual sin is not just a private
struggle. It’s a spiritual weapon the enemy uses to:
·
Pollute destinies
·
Destroy marriages
·
Delay godly relationships
·
Ruin spiritual authority
·
Separate people from God’s purpose for their
lives
What may seem like a personal habit or
coping mechanism could in reality be a demonic covenant keeping you
spiritually bound.
This is not a message of
condemnation—it’s a warning, a wake-up call, and an invitation to
freedom through Christ.
⚡ Section 2: The Hidden
Dangers of Sexual Sin
1. Sexual Immorality Opens
Spiritual Doors
Sexual activity,
in its design by God, is meant to be a sacred covenant within the bounds of
marriage—a divine union between husband and wife. However, when practiced
outside of this covenant, sex becomes a legal doorway for demonic
infiltration, emotional damage, and spiritual entanglement.
Immorality not
only violates God’s commandments but also establishes ungodly soul ties,
pollutes the body—which is the temple of the Holy Spirit—and breaks the
hedge of divine protection, allowing the enemy access to influence
thoughts, emotions, health, and destiny.
🧠 The Spiritual Mechanics Behind
It
·
Soul Ties: During sexual intercourse,
there is a fusion of souls. Even one-time encounters create lingering spiritual
links that can transfer demonic traits, soul fragmentation, and emotional
instability.
·
Legal Rights for Demons: Sexual sin
grants demons legal ground to enter a person’s life because it’s a
violation of God’s law. The enemy is a legalist; he exploits these breaches.
·
Pollution of the Mind: Lustful acts
reshape neural pathways, dulling spiritual sensitivity and heightening carnal
appetites.
·
Defilement of the Temple: The body is the
temple of the Holy Spirit. Immorality desecrates that temple, grieving the
Spirit and allowing darkness to dwell in what was meant to be a holy
habitation.
“Do you not know that
your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then take the members of
Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never!” — 1 Corinthians 6:15
(NIV)
🚪 Entry Points for Demonic
Influence
I. Fornication &
Adultery – These acts establish ungodly covenants with individuals.
They create portals for the transfer of spiritual baggage, curses, and even
diseases (both physical and spiritual). They often result in tormenting
thoughts, spiritual stagnation, and emotional instability.
II. Masturbation
– Though often minimized as a “private sin,” masturbation is typically fueled
by lustful imagination, pornography, or fantasy. It is frequently associated
with demonic beings known as incubi and succubi—spirits that
engage individuals sexually in dreams or even in waking life. Each act
reinforces bondage and opens the person up to repeated spiritual oppression.
III. Pornography
– Beyond visual stimulation, pornography is a gateway into the demonic realm.
The images are not neutral; they carry spiritual weight. Many pornographic actors
are under demonic influence or subjected to abuse, and watching these acts
creates a spiritual link with them. Repeated exposure rewires the brain,
numbs conscience, and attracts spirits of lust, perversion, and voyeurism.
IV. Sex Dreams –
Sexual dreams are often spiritual interactions, not psychological remnants.
Frequent or disturbing sex dreams may indicate the presence of spiritual
spouses(incubi and succubi)—demonic entities that bind a person in a false
marriage covenant in the spirit realm. These dreams can cause chronic fatigue,
sexual dysfunction, miscarriages, or failure in real-life relationships.
🔄 Consequences of Unrepented
Sexual Sin
·
Persistent spiritual oppression and sleep
disturbances
·
Inability to form healthy romantic or marital
relationships
·
Stagnation in career or ministry
·
Guilt, shame, and a hardened conscience
·
Depression which may results to suicidal
thoughts
·
Inherited curses passed down to children and
future generations
✝ Biblical Warning
“Flee sexual immorality. Every sin
that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins
against his own body.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18 (NKJV)
This verse underscores the unique
gravity of sexual sin—it is self-defiling. Unlike theft or lying, sexual
sin directly desecrates the vessel God designed to host His Spirit. The call is
not to resist or negotiate, but to flee—run, escape, and never return.
🛡 What to Do
·
Repent and Renounce – Verbally break
ungodly soul ties and spiritual covenants.
·
Deliverance Prayer – Seek Holy Spirit-led
deliverance from spiritual spouses and lust demons.
·
Purify the Mind – Replace lustful media
with Scripture, worship, and godly teachings.
·
Accountability – Confess to a trusted
spiritual mentor and build spiritual disciplines.
Sexual purity is not just a command—it’s a weapon
of spiritual warfare. Maintaining it preserves your intimacy with God, your
destiny, and your legacy.
2. Sex Dreams: A Demonic Red Flag
Many believers (even
non-belivers) dismiss sexual dreams as harmless fantasies or normal biological
processes. However, recurring sexual dreams—especially those involving unknown
individuals, ex-lovers, family members, or even religious
figures—are often not natural but spiritual attacks designed to
initiate or reinforce demonic covenants.
These dreams are not just
psychological residue; they are spiritual encounters orchestrated by
demonic entities often referred to as spiritual spouses: Incubus
(male demon) and Succubus (female demon).
👻 What Are Spiritual Spouses?
Spiritual spouses are demonic spirits that claim
sexual and relational ownership over individuals. They are assigned through
ancestral covenants, sexual sin, occult involvement, or trauma. Once attached,
they manifest through dreams and disrupt real-life intimacy, marriage, and
reproduction.
Their goals are to:
·
Sabotage godly relationships and marriages
·
Drain spiritual strength and cause fatigue
·
Defile the individual spiritually and physically
·
Enforce loneliness, emotional isolation, and
shame
These spirits operate legally—meaning they require a
doorway to enter (e.g., sexual sin, masturbation, family altars). Dreams
are one of their main platforms of access and engagement.
🚨 Signs of a Spiritual Spouse
If you experience the following symptoms,
especially in a recurring pattern, it may indicate demonic interference through
a spiritual spouse:
- ✔ Waking up with
physical sensations (e.g., wet dreams, unexplained arousal,
exhaustion)
These sensations mirror physical intimacy but are induced by demonic entities to forge a spiritual covenant. - ✔ Sudden addiction to
masturbation or lust after the dream
The dream plants seeds of addiction, causing uncontrollable urges and mental bondage. - ✔ Feeling a “presence”
during self-pleasure or sleep
Some individuals feel watched, touched, or even see shadows during or after these acts. - ✔ Romantic
relationships repeatedly fail without clear reason
Spiritual spouses induce misunderstandings, fear of commitment, or emotional coldness between partners to ensure isolation. - ✔ Reproductive issues
or miscarriages
These spirits may attack the womb or sperm to block fertility and frustrate God’s design for family. - ✔ Sleep paralysis or
demonic visitations
Often experienced as being held down or assaulted in the dream, unable to speak or move.
“For a dream comes through much activity, and a
fool’s voice is known by his many words.” — Ecclesiastes 5:3 (NKJV)
This Scripture reminds us that while some dreams
may arise from the soul’s busyness, persistent sexual dreams with spiritual
consequences are usually driven by spiritual entities.
🧠 Psychological
vs. Spiritual Analysis
While psychology may attribute sexual
dreams to repressed desires or hormonal fluctuations, Scripture and spiritual
discernment reveal deeper layers. Not all dreams are psychological. Some
are ritual encounters, especially when:
·
The dreams are recurring or violent
·
They leave you drained, depressed, or confused
·
They involve people or symbols that shouldn’t be
sexually linked
Dreams are spiritual gateways—either
portals for divine encounters (e.g., Joseph, Daniel) or demonic infiltration.
🛡 Biblical Response &
Deliverance
If you suspect the presence of a spiritual
spouse, take the following spiritual warfare steps:
I. Confess and Renounce: Acknowledge any
past sexual sin, soul ties, or occult involvement. Renounce all known and
unknown covenants in the name of Jesus.
II. Cancel Dreams by Prayer: Upon waking,
immediately reject the dream, break any covenant it attempted to establish, and
cover your spirit with the blood of Jesus.
III. Fast and Pray: Spiritual spouses
often require consistent fasting and prayer for complete eviction. Deliverance
may take time but is possible with persistence.
IV. Break Soul Ties: Verbally sever soul
ties formed through past sexual partners, especially those involved in
fornication or adultery.
V. Anoint and Cleanse Your Bedroom: Pray
over your bed and house. Use anointing oil and Scripture (e.g., Psalm 91,
Isaiah 54:17) to reclaim your space.
VI. Seek Deliverance Ministry: In
persistent cases, deliverance prayer by trusted and Spirit-led ministers may be
necessary.
“Behold, I give you the authority to trample
on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy…” — Luke
10:19 (NKJV)
God has given His children authority to overcome
every spiritual attack, including those that come through the night.
Freedom from spiritual spouses is part of the inheritance of the saints—but
it must be pursued with knowledge, repentance, and spiritual warfare.
Sexual dreams are not innocent—they are often contracts
in disguise. Expose them, renounce them, and walk in the purity and
authority Christ has given you.
3. Occult Sex Rituals & False
Pastors/Prophets
In this age of
deception, not every person claiming to represent God truly does.
Scripture warns of wolves in sheep’s clothing—individuals who operate under
demonic power while masquerading as pastors, prophets, or healers. Some of
these so-called leaders are involved in occult sex rituals, using
spiritual authority to exploit vulnerable followers.
These acts are
not just immoral—they are rituals of spiritual manipulation that
entangle souls, destinies, and entire bloodlines in demonic bondage.
🕳 How Occult Sex Rituals Work
In the realm of the occult, sex
is a spiritual transaction. When used under demonic influence, it becomes a
tool for:
·
Covenant exchange
·
Spiritual theft (destinies, blessings,
virtue)
·
Transfer of demonic spirits
·
Control and manipulation
This is what happens when a false
prophet or spiritually corrupt “man of God” engages in sexual acts with
you—whether physically or through dreams and spiritual
projections.
🔁 The Process of Spiritual
Enslavement
I. Seduction &
Deception: The false prophet uses charisma, promises of breakthrough, or
“prophetic instruction” to gain trust and access.
II. Sexual Act
(Physical or Spiritual): Intercourse is performed under the guise of
deliverance, blessing, or anointing. In some cases, people are attacked in
their dreams—spiritual rape initiated by these agents of darkness.
III. Formation of
Ungodly Soul Ties: The act ties your soul to the individual, granting them
spiritual control over your emotions, decisions, and destiny.
IV. Transfer of
Spirits & Oppression: After the act, many begin to experience:
·
Chronic sexual dreams
·
Sudden addictions to masturbation or
pornography
·
Mental torment, fear, or depression
·
Relationship destruction
·
Unexplained financial stagnation or
misfortune
V. Witchcraft
Control: Victims often feel emotionally enslaved—unable to leave the
church, question the leader, or regain spiritual clarity.
⚠️ Signs You’ve Been Spiritually
Exploited by a False Pastor
·
✔ You felt pressured into sexual activity with a
“spiritual leader”
·
✔ You now have recurring sexual dreams
involving the person
·
✔ Your life began to spiral downward after
the encounter
·
✔ You experience guilt, confusion, or
spiritual dryness
·
✔ You feel spiritually and emotionally bound
to the person
·
✔ You fear leaving the church or confronting the
leader, believing that something bad or spiritually dangerous will happen to
you if you do—such as curses, setbacks, misfortune, or divine punishment.
“And no
wonder! For Satan himself transforms himself into an angel of light.” — 2
Corinthians 11:14 (NKJV)
This Scripture
highlights how deception often looks holy. Just because someone preaches
or prophesies does not mean they operate under God’s Spirit.
🧹 How to Break Free from
Occultic Soul Ties
I. Acknowledge
the Sin & Deception: Confessing your sins and rededicating your life
to Christ is the first step toward true freedom. Acknowledge any sexual or
emotional entanglements, and ask God to expose and break every hidden covenant
or agreement that may be binding your soul.
II. Renounce
the Soul Tie Verbally: Declare aloud: “I break every ungodly soul tie
and spiritual covenant formed with [name of the false pastor], in the name of
Jesus.”
III. Break
Spiritual Covenants: Fast and pray to uproot every demonic contract
formed through sexual interaction. Use Scriptures like Psalm 91, Isaiah 10:27,
and Colossians 2:14.
IV. Plead the
Blood of Jesus: The blood of Jesus nullifies all satanic agreements. Pray: “By
the blood of Jesus, I cancel every spiritual exchange and reclaim my soul,
body, and destiny.”
V. Cut All
Contact: Do not return to the source of abuse. Delete phone numbers, leave
the church, and remove all points of access.
VI. Seek
Deliverance and Counseling: True freedom often requires spiritual
deliverance and emotional healing. Reach out to trustworthy,
Spirit-filled ministers or Christian therapists.
🛑 Warning: Not Every “Man
of God” Is From God
Be vigilant. Just
because someone has spiritual gifts, dreams, or performs miracles does not
guarantee godly character or divine backing.
“You will know
them by their fruits…” — Matthew 7:16 (NKJV)
Test every
spirit. Ask God for discernment. Do not allow desperation, loneliness, or
ignorance to lead you into spiritual slavery.
💬 Final Reflection
Sex is sacred—but in the wrong hands, it
becomes a weapon of witchcraft. Guard your body. Guard your spirit. And most of
all, submit every spiritual leader to the Word of God and the witness
of the Holy Spirit within you.
“My people are destroyed for lack of
knowledge.” — Hosea 4:6 (NKJV)
Gain knowledge. Seek deliverance. Walk in
the freedom Christ purchased for you.
✝️ Freedom Is Possible:
Steps to Deliverance
There
is hope and healing through the power of Jesus Christ. His blood not
only forgives sin—it breaks demonic yokes, cancels satanic contracts,
and restores your soul to freedom and purpose.
“So
if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” — John 8:36 (NIV)
🕊️ Deliverance Steps
I.
Repent Wholeheartedly
Turn
away from all known and hidden sexual sin. Come before God with genuine
repentance, confessing your sins with a sincere heart. Rededicating your life
to Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior is the first and most vital step toward true
deliverance.
II. Renounce Spiritual Spouses
and Soul Ties
Speak
aloud and break every agreement, covenant, or connection with spiritual
spouses, former sexual partners, and unholy relationships. Declare their
power null and void in the name of Jesus Christ.
III. Break Occult and Witchcraft
Ties
Through
prayer and fasting, break all involvement with the occult—whether personal
or generational:
·
Witchcraft
·
Freemasonry
·
Ancestral worship
·
False prophetic acts
IV.
Destroy Access Points
Remove
anything that gives the enemy legal ground:
·
🧹 Delete pornography and lustful
content
·
🔥 Burn or throw away sex toys,
ungodly books, or symbols
·
🎧 Stop listening to seductive music
or watching sensual media or dirty movies
V. Pray Without Ceasing and
Engage in Midnight Warfare
Maintain
a consistent and aggressive prayer life. Make it a habit to engage in midnight
warfare prayers, especially between 12:00 a.m. and 3:00 a.m., a
period when spiritual activity is most intense. This is a critical time to
break strongholds, uproot demonic seeds, and enforce your victory in Christ.
Target:
·
Spiritual Spouses and Demonic Oppressors:
Command every spirit husband or wife—whether inherited, invoked, or
transferred—to be exposed and destroyed by the fire of the Holy Spirit. Break
their legal rights and reject all spiritual intimacy that has occurred through
dreams or ungodly covenants.
·
Ungodly Soul Ties: Sever every emotional,
sexual, or spiritual connection formed outside of God’s will. Declare the blood
of Jesus as your cleansing power and break all soul entanglements that have
hindered your peace and progress.
·
Generational Curses and Inherited Bondages:
Renounce the iniquities of your bloodline. Call out ancestral sins—such as
sexual perversion, witchcraft, idolatry, or infidelity—and break their
influence over your life through the authority of Jesus Christ.
·
Destiny Grabbers and Spiritual Robbers:
Uproot every force working to steal your God-ordained purpose. Pray against
manipulation, delay, confusion, and sabotage. Declare restoration over every
area of your destiny that has been tampered with—marriage, career, health,
finances, and spiritual calling.
“From
the days of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of heaven suffers violence,
and the violent take it by force.” — Matthew 11:12 (NKJV)
Let
your prayers be backed by faith, Scripture, and the fire of the Holy Spirit.
This is your hour of breakthrough.
“But
while men slept, his enemy came and sowed tares…” — Matthew 13:25 (KJV)
6. Seek Help from Anointed
Deliverance Ministries
Connect with spirit-filled
pastors or deliverance ministers who operate under the authority of the
Holy Spirit and the Word of God.
Avoid self-proclaimed prophets without biblical grounding.
7. Walk Daily in Purity and Power
Maintain your freedom by:
- 📖 Reading and meditating on Scripture
- 🙏 Fasting regularly and praying consistently
- 👁️ Guarding your eyes, ears, and thoughts
- 🤝 Fellowshipping with other believers
Deliverance is not just
about casting demons out—it’s about walking with Christ and remaining
filled with His Spirit daily.
Final Word of Warning and Hope
Sexual
sin may feel pleasurable, but it can enslave your soul. The devil uses
sex as a weapon to destroy families, ministries, and destinies. You may think
it’s harmless—but the spiritual consequences are real and deadly.
“Flee
sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but
the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18
Don’t
wait until everything falls apart. Act now. Cry out to God. Seek
deliverance. Walk in freedom.
You Are Not Alone
If you see these signs in your life—frequent sex
dreams, relationship failure, loss of intimacy with God, masturbation
addiction, emotional instability—you can be free.
Jesus is willing to deliver you. You just have to say
YES.
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